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Question:
If a man is allowed to have more than one wife, then why does
Islam prohibit a woman from having more than one husband?
Answer: A lot of people, including some Muslims, question the logic
of allowing Muslim men to have more than one spouse while
denying the same ‘right’ to women. Let me first state emphatically, that the foundation of an
Islamic society is justice and equity. Allah has created
men and women as equal, but with different capabilities
and different responsibilities. Men and women are different,
physiologically and psychologically. Their roles and responsibilities
are different. Men and women are equal in Islam, but not
identical. Surah Nisa’ Chapter 4 verses 22 to 24 gives the list of women
with who you can not marry and it is further mentions in
Surah Nisa’ Chapter 4 verse 24 "Also (prohibited are)
women already married" The following points enumerate
the reasons why polyandry is prohibited in Islam: 1.
If a man has more than one wife, the parents of the children
born of such marriages can easily be identified. The father
as well as the mother can easily be identified. In case
of a woman marrying more than one husband, only the mother
of the children born of such marriages will be identified
and not the father. Islam gives tremendous importance to
the identification of both parents, mother and father. Psychologists
tell us that children who do not know their parents, especially
their father undergo severe mental trauma and disturbances.
Often they have an unhappy childhood. It is for this reason
that the children of prostitutes do not have a healthy childhood.
If a child born of such wedlock is admitted in school, and
when the mother is asked the name of the father, she would
have to give two or more names! I am aware that recent advances
in science have made it possible for both the mother and
father to be identified with the help of genetic testing.
Thus this point which was applicable for the past may not
be applicable for the present.
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